All of our "school-free" days have been exciting and fun; but yesterday, I felt the need to gather everyone around the school table and talk about what this year holds for us. We started with a devotion from Ephesians 5:15-16, which says:
"See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil." (nkjv)
Following a brief discussion about the meaning of "circumspectly" (carefully considering consequences) we moved on to talk about redeeming our time. Redemption is a beautiful word, full of possibility and promise. I went around the table, from child to child and explained times I've witnessed in which each one of my six have redeemed their time for good. It was heartwarming to watch their faces light up as I pointed to their selfless acts, expressions of kindness and initiative to help others.
My desire for this year is that we will be purposeful with our time, remembering each moment is a gift from God. I also want my littles to be motivated from their hearts and led by God's Word, rather than pushed by my hands or prodded by my words.
So, our next step was to set goals. Goals give us something to shoot for, a target to sharpen our focus. Of course, they needed to know how to set a personal goal. I explained the process this way:
1) Think about each area of your life.
2) Consider the gifts and talents God has given you.
3) Take a look at where God has you right now.
4) Explore what you would like to do and expand that to include what only God can do through you.
5) Ask God for an anchor verse of Scripture to set your goals and keep them tied to His Word and His purpose for your days.
We settled on six goal areas:
Spiritual
Physical
Educational
Service
Social
Entrepreneurial
Everyone went to a quiet place alone to pray and write down their own goals. I met with each child individually to talk about strengths, weaknesses, possibilities and my role in coming alongside them to accomplish their goals. This time was precious. It allowed me to hear their hearts and to express my faith in God to do mighty things in and through them. I can't wait to see what He does.
In case you're wondering how a little one would go through this process, we simplified it for the 6 and 8 year olds. They had to draw three pictures showing how they can be a help at home, at church and to others. Their pictures, as well as the desires of their hearts, were priceless. Our 6 year old drew a picture of himself leading a friend to church and wrote: "Come with me to God." Our 8 year old, who came home to us (through adoption) a year ago with huge issues concerning fear that he wouldn't have enough food, wrote: "I will give people food." Looking me in the eyes, he said, "Because we have lots of food, Mom, and some people don't have enough." Oh. My. Heart...
What I learned from this snowy goal-setting day is that we do have "lots"- lots of love, lots of hope and lots of God's gifts to give. I am excited to see what God will do as we redeem the time for Him this year. If you're snowed in today, or if you find yourself in a sunny spot, why not ask God how you can redeem the time for Him this year? You'll be glad you did!
Hi, Stephanie, I found your blog via Facebook and was drawn to the idea of snow days, of which we have none in Jacksonville, as you well know. I see you are a women's ministry director and mother of 4 (?) who home schools, so your time is limited. However, I invite you to view my blog for a change of pace. God bless you with strength and wisdom.
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